the wrong guy or girl

[Webagent007]

Abuse (Physical) happens more often then you probably may think. Even though the guy or girl who does this is super charming in the beginning, there are a few signals of wich you can tell how they are in realitybr]
He/she will make remarks that will have bad influence on your self esteam, your self trust.. in other words tries to put you down

He/she is extremely jealours, and checks up on everything you do

He/she wants you to devote yourself totally to him/her and not to friends and family

If he/she makes a mistake, he/she will blaim others

Speaks evil about his/her ex'es

If he/she gets upset, then he/she wil loose control, and curses and threads (or is it threats? lol)


I've had a relation like this, and I read this text into a magazine.. and I was like HUH??? this completely matches and is soooooooooooo true! It also means, I initially thought my ex was unique, but there seem to be more like him, or this wouldnt be in a magazine. I found it good to post, maybe you can recognize something in it and will help you.

[nita]

That is interesting ... But it can also mislead you too.. Someone's online personality........I am completly diff. in real life as to how I am on here. I would rather drop dead then to actually flirt with a guy in real life. lol <<<<<< too shy

But you know webby, this kinda reminds me alot about what Alex was just telling me.. about guyz online that look for younger girls (or older) to hurt them in real life.

Maybe this is good signs to look for, in order to be careful incase someone wants a real life relationship from someone they 'think' they know but don't.

wise words there web thx

[Alexander]

webby when im done have a look at the shocking story in the mods section labeled "Paedophiles BEWARE!" you will see what we mean and what my idea is

xt.proboards18.com/index.cgi?board=mods&action=display&thread=1054935065

[Webagent007]

ahh yeah I didnt even think of online abuse, it happens alot that people meet and get abused, if I may give advice, I dont think those rooms in romance are an ideal place to meet someone in the first place.. they are filled with freaks!!!

Just think about thisone, why would they be in a room called like that? why do they go to rooms like that to meet someone? forget about the signs lol.. don't ever meet people like that in the first place!

It's been a while ago but I read in the papers, that how do you call s**ual diseases? well they are spread most under that group of chatters, so if you ignore my advice atleast dont catch something!

[Ender]

Webagent007 said:

if I may give advice, I dont think those rooms in romance are an ideal place to meet someone in the first place.. they are filled with freaks!!!

Some people just didn't listen to me when I told them to stay weary of the Romance section. Some actually take my advice, but in any case..

Amen Web

[Toni]

d**n right go to the general section to meet men

[Cypher]

religion can be quite scary aswell. there the normal religions like christian, muslim etc. but then theres like the satanic chat rooms etc. stear clear

[Freak]

Webagent007 said:

...they are filled with freaks!!!

there you go again ragging on the Freaks

[Duke Tosti]

lol freak ... I also think romance stinks ... starting with the room names only, really pathetic over there ... what I should call extreme freaks indeed ;D j/k freak

[mcloone]

Thats exactly what happened me with my ex girlfreind, but now its over !